MEMORIES OF JERRY SELF
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What can I say about Jerry that you haven't already read?  I'm not sure where to start.  I've known Jerry for about 6 years.  He had captured the heart of my youngest daughter, but I loved him and so did all the family.  Jerry was always ready to help do anything...trim bushes, help us decorate the Christmas tree, and show up with a warm, beautiful smile and a hug just at the right time when one was needed.  Jerry and Dayna were camp counselors together at Athens, TX where he was an inspiration to kids, all who loved him.  He was a Christian, loving, caring, and  compassionate.  There are too many people today afraid to talk about their faith, but not Jerry.  He was excited about his faith in God.  To hear how he touched so many lives in a short amount of time is exceptional.  Jerry was the kind of young man you hope your daughter will meet and marry someday.  He was the puzzle piece that was missing in our family.  We will always love and miss him.

Jacki and Mike-
Jerry was so special to all of us.  We are blessed to have such sweet beautiful memories.  It's easy to see what a loving, caring person he was because he had wonderful examples.

-Debbie Worlow, bworlow@mindspring.com
I remember being so happy when I would drive up to my house after work and see Jerry's truck sitting there.  If he came over after dark, he would never ring the doorbell in case someone was asleep.  He would just lightly knock and say in a loud whisper, "It's Jerry", which was one of my favorite things to hear. Even though he was coming over to see my sister Dayna, we all loved it when Jerry was around.  Something about him always made you feel good.  Maybe it was his vivacious personality, his charming smile, or maybe it was the sparkle he put in my little sister's eyes.   Over the past few years Jerry has come to mean the world to my whole family.  I know that I am lucky to have known Jerry like I did, and I am thankful for the time I got to spend with him. I love you Jerry Don and can't wait to see you and my Dad again one day.
-Becky Worlow (LHS '92), bworlow@mindspring.com
I didn't know Jerry but his smile will always come to my mind whenever I remember the bonfire tragedy.  As I read about him there was just something that seemed so special about an average kid who had so much heart.  I just can't forget him.  He won't ever be forgotten.  He was an AGGIE!
-Becky Embry (wife of an Aggie, Class of '76), Embryhouse@aol.com
In memory of your Son, Brother,and friend who gave all he had .... he will be with Our Lord and all God's AGGIES.
Chris Spears
Dawn Williams
Connie Griffin
Tammy Stubblefield
Terri York
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Bryan, Texas
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My prayers and deepest condolences go out to Jerry's family and friends.  I did not have the blessing of knowing Jerry, but I have been deeply touched by the testimonies I have heard from those who did.  What a comfort it must be, even in this time of deep hurt, to hear how Jerry's life and death have brought glory to God!  I can't begin to imagine the pain you must be experiencing in your loss, but I pray that God will wrap His arms of love around you and comfort you.  And know this: the greatest tribute Jerry has received has not been from men, but instead from His Heavenly Father, who welcomed him into heaven saying, "Well done my good and faithful servant!"  I am so proud of my fellow Viking and brother in Christ.  May God pour out His comfort, blessings, and love on you.
In Him,
Kevin Roe (LHS '94), RoeDog9@aol.com
Dear Family of Jerry Self and Friends,
My family and I have been, and will continue to, pray for you and all of our Aggie Family.  We also pray that you will be able to overlook and forgive the media hawks who will continue to battle for the big story.  Your son and your friend was a part of something larger than any of them will ever understand - the Aggie Family.  I am a non-traditional Aggie (Class of '02) and a parent who has witnessed this tragedy from the standpoint of a student and a parent.
What I have seen is a fantastically beautiful group of young people who have taught me many things about life, young people who lived their lives to the fullest and young people with a strong faith in God.  Please know, we will always keep you in our prayers and we are so deeply sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Valari Kubos (A&M '02), VKubos@aol.com
Jerry,
Although our paths didn't cross very often here in College Station, I will always remember the times we spent together at Lamar.  Standing together on the sidelines of football games; declaring ourselves Student Council "Point Leaders" and sitting with the officers for the yearbook picture; riding around in that ugly Scout that you thought was so cool; going with you and your grandmother to buy your new truck; sitting in my car before school singing to Jimmy Buffett; driving as fast as we could to get to lunch and only taking five minutes to eat; church lunches where you wouldn't leave until all the food was gone; sleeping in my parents' recliners in the afternoons; Thursday night pre-game meals at Olive Garden; planning to live together at A&M until you decided to join the Corps; and so much more.  I always looked forward to those chance meetings on campus or at the mall where you would greet me with your famous smile and we would talk like we had never been apart.  Whenever I would see a maroon Dodge, I would look to see if it was you, but it never was.  There is nothing I regret more than losing touch with you, Jerry, but I know I will see you again soon.  You were a truly special person and I will strive to live my life the way you lived yours-with a deep faith in God and a love for all.  Your spirit will burn in my heart forever.
-Adam Hankins (LHS '97, A&M '01), adamh@tamu.edu
I had the privilege of meeting Jerry only once, but every time I think about that time, it makes me laugh.  I went to the first football game this year with a senior in Jerry's outfit.  We were squeezing through the aisle to get to our seats, and when we were almost there, someone stopped us to say hello, and then made a few jokes to me about my date.  I couldn't help myself from laughing.  It turned out that my seat was right next to Jerry, who had made the jokes about his senior, my date.  I laughed throughout the whole first half of the game from all the jokes he was cracking off the top of his head.  Right after halftime I decided to go to the concession stand but I didn't want to bring my camera, so Jerry said he would watch it for me.  I didn't think twice about leaving it with him.  Anyhow, a few weeks later when I got my film developed there were these two random pictures of Jerry pulling out senior privileges with his friends.  It was too funny.  I couldn't believe they had done that.

I look at those pictures all the time and wish that I had gotten to meet Jerry a few more times.  He touched so many lives, and everyone has something positive to say about him.  I know that he was a wonderful person, and I am so glad that he is an Aggie Angel that looks out for the rest of us Ags!

In the Spirit of Aggieland,
Shauna L. Schultz (A&M '02), sls1671@acs.tamu.edu
I was introduced to Jerry Self before a yell by my former boyfriend. All I remember about Jerry was his huge smile and that his buddy said he was an awesome guy.  Even though I didn't really know him, I want to let his family know that I will never forget him or the sacrifice he made for our school.  It's true...our 12 Angels will live forever in Aggie Spirit.
-Breanne Svehla (A&M '03), bonnies@iglobal.net
I've never had the opportunity to meet Jerry but I still pray for his family and the families of those who died in the bonfire.  With the impact that his passing away made on those here at Lamar, I truly know that he was someone very special in the eyes of all.  I just continue to pray for the teachers here and at A&M and for all his friends that truly got to know him.  I just believe that he is in Heaven now with our Father.
-Randi Greene (LHS '01), barbieblonde@hotmail.com

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